Just like with their younger counterparts, more mature women are also looking at bars as a place to meet single guys. Where you go really depends on what you are looking for! Do you want a relationship that is going to actually go somewhere, or are you just testing the waters to see if dating an older woman is really what you want to do? Are you looking for a quick hook-up and a one night stand? Is a night of pleasurable sex what you have in mind? Or do you want to approach a woman at a bar and see how it goes?
There are a few different types of bars that tend to be the best options for more mature women. Tries these out first before you head to the typical dive bar:
You will always find older women at piano bars
Piano bars are like crack for many women. The high energy from the piano players, dancing from the patrons, and overall fun atmosphere makes this a really solid option. It’s very easy to move around the crowd, strike up a conversation, and even do a little impromptu dancing.
If there is one thing synonymous with single women it’s their universal love of wine. Wine bars are also great because they tend to be a little classier and easier to have an actual conversation in. A little sexy glance your way, especially in such an intimate space, is already an invitation to make the first move. If you’re not into clubs, wine bars are what you’re looking for.
Much like wine bars, lounges are a great relaxed atmosphere that make having an actual conversation fairly easy. Women with a few more years under their belt tend to prefer low-key lounges over the loud and stinky bars and clubs filled with twenty-somethings.
If you are looking to meet an older woman who cares about her body and likes to stay flexible yoga classes are fantastic. There are a few things about yoga classes that really make them stand out:
First, most of these classes are going to be 80% or more women. Many guys are intimidated when it comes to trying out yoga so you are not going to have a lot of competition in these classes. There is also quite a bit of mingling that happens before and after the class begins which can make striking up a conversation pretty easy.
Second, you are much more likely to find women 35+ at a yoga class than at the gym. Meeting older women in a standard gym chain can be pretty tough since many of them aren’t interested in lifting weights and only use the cardio machines. If you have ever tried to talk to a woman on a treadmill you know how hard it can be!
Lastly, yoga studios are very friendly and open places. If you go there with an open mind and a friendly attitude you are going to enjoy yourself.
#7 – Restaurants with good bars are especially nice
Get yourself a part-time job as a waiter or bartender in a nice eatery, or just make it a habit to spend time there, if you are dead serious about this. Older women tend to frequent these places for an afternoon drink or an evening meal. And the great thing about this is they rarely come in alone, so again you may have more than one choice here!